{"id":742,"date":"2011-04-10T17:19:21","date_gmt":"2011-04-11T00:19:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.askaweddingplanner.com\/blog\/?p=742"},"modified":"2011-04-18T13:02:35","modified_gmt":"2011-04-18T20:02:35","slug":"destined-for-a-destination","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.askaweddingplanner.com\/blog\/index.php\/2011\/04\/destined-for-a-destination\/","title":{"rendered":"destined for a destination….?"},"content":{"rendered":"

ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED IN THE CALGARY HERALD, IN LISA HANSLIP\u2019S COLUMN \u201cI DO, BUT DON\u2019T\u2026\u201d
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Q. <\/span>My fianc\u00e9e and I can\u2019t quite decide what to do about our wedding. She is the youngest of 10 kids and her immediate family alone now numbers about 52 people, not to mention all the cousins and aunts and uncles. I have three siblings (all married with kids), countless aunts, uncles and cousins, and my parents are both re-married. By the time we actually start inviting all of our friends our guest list will be huge. We\u2019re actually considering a destination wedding because we know very few of them could afford to attend, but we\u2019re not sure we\u2019d be happy with this decision. What should we do?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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A. <\/span>The guest list can be one of the most stressful parts of planning a wedding – even without such an expansive family tree.\u00a0 <\/span>Destination weddings are increasingly popular for many reasons. Although thinning out the guest list often falls near the top of the list, it\u2019s not the best reason to run off to the islands to get married.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cIs there really a bad reason to get married barefoot on the beach at sunset?\u201d you ask\u2026 Actually there is. It really depends on what you want to remember from your wedding day – the pool boy bringing you a Mai Tai in a coconut as soon as you say \u201cI do,\u201d or that your family was there to share it with you.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Destination weddings can be wonderful if you choose a place that has particular meaning to you as a couple. Many resorts do a lovely job with weddings, however most of the time it\u2019s a crap shoot what kind of officiant, flowers and photographer you\u2019ll end up with, so do lots of research before you choose a location. You also want to look into residency requirements – some islands require you to be there several days before you can get a marriage license.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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If you do decide to opt for a destination wedding to avoid feeding all 52 of your fianc\u00e9e\u2019s immediate family (yikes!), just make sure you do a good job of selling them on your penchant for fruity umbrella drinks so no one gets offended. Aloha! <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED IN THE CALGARY HERALD, IN LISA HANSLIP\u2019S COLUMN \u201cI DO, BUT DON\u2019T\u2026\u201d Q. My fianc\u00e9e and I can\u2019t quite decide what to do about our wedding. She is the youngest of 10 kids and her immediate family alone now numbers about 52 people, not to mention all the cousins and aunts and uncles. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[45,213,15,214,30],"class_list":["post-742","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-etiquette","tag-calgary-herald","tag-destination-wedding-etiquette","tag-lisa-hanslip","tag-reasons-for-having-a-destination-wedding","tag-the-wedding-planner"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.askaweddingplanner.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/742","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.askaweddingplanner.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.askaweddingplanner.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.askaweddingplanner.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.askaweddingplanner.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=742"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.askaweddingplanner.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/742\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":768,"href":"https:\/\/www.askaweddingplanner.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/742\/revisions\/768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.askaweddingplanner.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=742"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.askaweddingplanner.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=742"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.askaweddingplanner.com\/blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=742"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}